LDR

I don't know why I made this blog post. I just found my self typing this kind of topic. Maybe because I am disturbed and I can't stop my self from thinking and worrying about this scenario.



I have my weaknesses, I have my downfalls and I have my own problems about my attitude, of being an outrageous person, mind-setter, or I don't accept defeat or "NO" for an answer but I consider it as one of my strengths. I mean, if I have something I wanted to have, I will do whatever it takes to have that thing. If I'm defeated or if I never tried to get a certain thing I am not in ease.










As a manipulative bitch, I will compromise. If you say "NO" for an answer, well, i will certainly do something just for you to agree with me.


Anyways, before the topic goes too far, Well, LDR or Long-Distance Relationship . What's in the title?







I know how tough Long-Distance Relationships can be for a couple. The lack of time together in person, the endless electronic means of communication, the time zones, the travel, the culture, the beliefs, etc. etc. etc., it can leave you wondering "Is this even worth it?", "Should I keep this?", "For how long should I stay being like this?"

3 TIPS TO MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP STRONG EVEN IF ITS A LONG DISTANCE:

• Open Communication - That's the key for me. Make the communication stay. Message each other everyday and make an arrangements that, even for once a week you can do video chats. Just a simple message means everything to a girl who came from a boy who are important to them. As much as possible keep the conversation open, lots to tell, and don't let it run down topics.

• Trust Each Other - Trusting means you are confident about relying something to that person. Trust each other even if you are miles apart. By putting in your mind that you trust that person and you are secured about them, there will be less arguments, the love will stay, there will be no dramas, jealousy, trust issues,will build harmony, and the relationship will grow.

• BE HONEST - By being honest there will be no doubts and less drama, there will be no trust issues, love will grow, the communication will be open. You got to know the person. And the possibility that the relationship will last.

There's a lot of things you can do to make the LDR last. By the help of those three everything will follow. Send gifts during important occasions, or even just a gift as a token of love. Message each other frequently and make an arrangements for example, both of you should be free at around 6 PM her time just to have video chat. Take the risks, compromise, and do something over video chat that is romantic. I mean, be creative. Surprise her, don't let the conversation run out of topics and everything..

Take the risks, try, maybe it will make you happy, and you will not have regrets in the future because, you've Tried.

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